Sunday, February 19, 2023

Suy Niệm Tin Mừng Thứ Sáu Tuần Thứ 6 Thường Niên

Suy Niệm Tin Mừng Thứ Sáu Tuần Thứ 6 Thường Niên (Mark 8:34 -)
Nếu như có một tiên tri nào đó “sống lại” mời chúng ta theo ông với những điều kiện là phải chịu đau khổ, chịu bắt bớ, chịu lăng nhục, thử hỏi có ai trong chúng ta có đủ can đảm để bỏ cuộc sống ấm cúng, an vui của chúng ta để đi theo người đó. Chắc chắn chúng ta sẽ thẳng thừng từ chối, vì nghĩ ràng mình chưa đến nỗi quá điên rồ như thế. Là con người, Thiên Chúa đã ban cho chúng ta tự do và những sự lựa chọn. Và chắc chắn rằng chúng ta sẽ không bao giờ nghĩ tới sự lựa chọn một con đường đầy khó khăn, giông tố và đau khổ?
            Tại sao tình yêu lại là lý do và là yếu tố quan trọng ở đây? Các anh em chiến sĩ tham dự vào các trận chiến không phải vì họ ngu khờ vì không biết cái chết trước mắt, họ biết sẽ phải hy sinh, nhưng họ chiến đấu vì lý tưởng để bảo vệ đất nước, quê hương sở sở, gia đình và dân tộc của họ để chống lại những ngoại xâm. Các em học sinh chắc không ngu gì khi phải tự nguyện để tham dự những kỳ thi thử thách khó khăn để cố vào được các trường Đại học nổi tiếng, mắc tiền....nhưng các em đã chịu hy sinh, chịu khổ cực để cố gắng thi vào vì các em nghĩ rằng có cố gắng mới tạo cho mình và gia đình có một tương lai và một cuộc sống tốt đẹp và khá hơn.
            Chúng ta theo Chúa Kitô không dễ như theo cha mẹ hay bạn bè đi chơi ngoài phố. Nhưng đó là sự yêu thương chúng ta cam kết khi Ngài đã chứng minh tình yêu của ngài bằng sự cống hiến chính mạng sống của Ngài cho chúng ta bằng cái chết trên thập giá. Đó là cái giá  tình yêu chân thực của tình thầy trò.  Có những lúc chúng ta nghĩ là cuộc đời này sẽ tốt hơn cho chúng ta nếu chúng ta thảnh thơi dạo phố, hay ngồi quán cà phê nhâm nhi thưởng thức một ly cà phê hơn là nghĩ và nhớ đến Chúa. Nhưng biết đâu sẽ có những khoảnh khắc bóng tối sẽ bất ngờ đến và bao trùm cuộc sống chúng ta, cuộc này không có gì gọi là chắc chắn cả. Khi cuộc đời đi đến khúc quanh, bập bềnh, giông tố, Thiên Chúa vẫn luôn tìm kiếm và cùng đồng hành với chúng ta ngay bên cạnh. Chúa sẵn sàng tiếp sức và giúp đưa chúng ta thoát được những cơn bảo tồ kinh hoàng của cuộc sống, nếu chúng ta biết nhớ đến Ngài.
            Chúng ta hãy xin Chúa  ban cho chúng ta các ân sủng của Ngài, Nhất ơn kiên trì, đ tất cả những gì xảy ra với chúng ta hôm nay và trong những ngày tới, chúng ta có thể luôn luôn biết tìm thấy chính mình trong việc phục vụ Đức Kitô, người đã yêu chúng ta trước.
            "Lạy Chúa Giêsu, chúng con muốn được theo Chúa để m môn đệ của Chúa. Chúng con sẵn sàng dâng lên Chúa tất cả những gì chúng con cho Chúa.  Xin Chúa hãy nhận chính cuộc sống của chúng con như của lễ hy sinh dâng để chúc tụng vinh danh làm đẹp lòng Chúa."
 
REFLECTION
Perhaps if some prophet invited us to follow him and one of the conditions was to suffer, we definitely would be having second thoughts. Who in their right mind would freely choose to take a path filled with hardship, pain and misery? At the onset, the journey looks more precarious than it should. 
            That's why love becomes the essential factor here. Soldiers engage in battle not because they know that death is a high possibility. They fight to defend our country and those nearest and dearest to them even at the risk of offering up their own lives. Students don't voluntarily undergo the mental challenges of long tests and exams because they are masochists. They study because they want to make the best of this blessing given to them by their families.
            We follow Christ not because it will be a walk in the park. It is our loving commitment to him as he demonstrated this total dedication to us by his death on the cross. That is the true cost of discipleship. It would be nice to take a leisurely stroll and occasionally enjoy a cup of coffee at a local café as we stay on this path of light. But there will be moments of darkness and uncertainty. When the going gets rough, will our Lord still find us by his side?  Let us continue to pray for the grace of persistence. No matter what happens to us today and in the coming days, may we always find ourselves at the service of the one who loved us first.
 
True Fulfillment
Friday of the Sixth Week in Ordinary Time
“What profit is there for one to gain the whole world and forfeit his life?” Mark 8:36
This short and direct question is worth much meditation. In Mark’s Gospel, this line comes within the context of Jesus teaching about the requirements of being His disciple. And it comes after Jesus began to explicitly teach that He Himself would suffer and die as the Christ.
Think about this question above, starting with the first part of the question. “What profit is there for one to gain the whole world…” Do you want to gain the whole world? For most people, such a possibility is quite enticing. To “gain the whole world” is to gain everything this world has to offer. Imagine being offered unlimited wealth in this world. What if you were to win the largest jackpot any lottery ever offered and more? What if you were able to have beautiful mansions around the world, your own private jet, every modern convenience, the most expensive of cars, and the ability to do whatever you wanted for the rest of your life? Is this enticing? Certainly it is on a superficial level. But it is also a very deceptive enticement, because all of this could not make you any happier or more fulfilled than you already are.
The second part of this question is also easy to address. Would you want to forfeit your life? Certainly not. So Jesus offers two contrasting statements in one sentence. Most people would want to gain the whole world but would never want to forfeit their lives. Jesus sets up this contrast as a way of telling us very clearly that we cannot desire one without also choosing the other. In other words, if your heart’s desire is for the riches of this world, then you do indeed forfeit your very life to the extent that you give into that desire. On the contrary, if you choose the salvation of your soul, then you must forfeit the desire for the riches and enticements of this world. You cannot desire and choose both.
With that said, there might be a very rare soul who has many things in this world but has no attachment to them at all. They live completely detached from the things of this world, finding true satisfaction only in God and His holy will, becoming indifferent to any material things they have. Of course, this is a very difficult interior disposition for one to arrive at when they have accumulated much wealth.
Alternately, there are those in this world who have very little. They are truly poor in the literal sense. However, they spend their days dreaming about riches and covet all that they do not have. Sadly, this poor soul is, in fact, just as materially attached as the one who has made riches the goal and focus of life. And that interior attachment will do great spiritual damage.
Reflect, today, upon this question of Jesus: “What profit is there for one to gain the whole world and forfeit his life?” Use that question as a source of prayer, meditation and self-examination. Try to be honest about your desires. If you find that you spend much time daydreaming about riches, then pay particular attention to this question. Life in its fullness can never be obtained through those desires or the fulfillment of those desires. God and God alone fulfills. Seek God above all else and you will find that nothing this world has to offer comes close to the riches of the Kingdom of God.
Lord, You and You alone are the source of fulfillment in life. Please purify my desires so that I ultimately desire only You and Your holy will. Free me from every deception and false enticement in life so that I will find satisfaction only in You. Jesus, I trust in You.
 
Friday of the Sixth Week in Ordinary Time 2023
Introductory Prayer: O Lord, this day you wish to take away from me any false ideas about what it means to be your friend. I believe that by attending to the sacred message of your cross,  I can learn authentic love of you and your Kingdom. In your cross is an example of every virtue I need and every goal I wish to attain. In the cross there is hope, an all-powerful hope that transcends every human disappointment. I wish to carry my cross with joy as a token of my love and gratitude to you.
Petition: Lord, make the cross a singular place of friendship with you in my life.
1. Becoming Through Suffering: Most people move through the day with self-preservation and self-interest influencing their decision-making. Choosing a harder road can still be a self-interested affair, if people seek their own advancement in life. Christ’s message is not simply about a work ethic—sweating, toiling and sacrificing to be successful. The self-denial that is asked of a Christian goes deeper than that. It must reach into that place where we try to preserve ourselves and our most cherished desires. Nothing teaches Christ’s lesson better than the crosses that have surprised us, the crosses that were not planned or wanted. Every step with these crosses on our backs is true following, true loving, true salvation without delusion or bitterness.
2. Following or Leading? One day Mother Teresa saw one of her sisters headed out into the streets with a long face. She called her over and said, “What did Jesus say, to carry the cross in front of Him or to follow Him?” The sister responded, smiling, “To follow Him.” Mother then asked, “Why are you trying to go ahead of Him?” (Mother Teresa: Come be My Light, p.221) “The cross of Christ” is not just the rightful assumption of the weight of a holy life, it is also an attitude. The wrong attitude can crush our spirits and make us suffer like a pagan: alone. Humble faith reveals the One we follow, who shows us the way, who sustains our hope, and who leads us to profound Christian joy.
3. Sacrificial Love and Life Are Inseparable: Seeing the Kingdom in power is a consequence for those who suffer for Christ. Our Lord guarantees this: Love will never be defeated in this life or the next. Although they might seem to have suffered in vain, many saints saw the glory of the Lord in special moments during their life and in abundance after they passed to heaven. The incorrupt, the documented miracles of intercession, the great movement of spirituality in the Church—all these attest that God will never let love for him be separated from the coming of his Kingdom in power.
Conversation with Christ: Lord, bring my soul to the cross without fear, trusting in its mysterious power to change me and the world around me. I should not withdraw from life when it wounds me. May I resolve in every low moment, when Christ asks for more from me, to live the resolution of Blessed Teresa of Calcutta: “A hearty ‘Yes’ to God, and a big smile for all” (Mother Teresa: Come be My Light, p.217).
Resolution: At night I will examine well my attitudes towards difficulties and ensure that they reflect the spirit of a true disciple.
 
Friday- 6th Sunday in Ordinary Time
“What profit does a man show who gains the whole world and destroys himself in the process?” This more modern translation helps us to grasp at least a very real meaning in the last part of the Jesus’ phrase according to the more traditional translation: “What does it profit a man if he gains the whole world and suffers the loss of his soul?” We cannot see whether anyone actually loses his soul, but we can see very clearly how a man can destroy himself through greed of any kind.
            As I write this reflection, this morning’s newspapers carry an item suggesting that Pope Francis is putting his life in danger because of his firm and uncompromising stance against corruption, which has made many criminals and even Church officials rich at the expense of the poor.
            We can be sure that threats to his life will not deter Francis in his prophetic stance in favour of justice, especially justice for the poor. Let us all support him with our prayers.
Father in Heaven, You have chosen Francis to lead Your Church in an age when crime and corruption crush the poor and many ordinary decent people in many lands. Protect our Pope in his endeavour to reform, strength and guide Your Church in the pathways of truth and justice.
 
REFLECTION
Jesus suffered and died on the cross for our salvation from sin. This is the greatest gift humanity has received from God. But to accept this gift, we must shed our worldly attachments and follow Christ. Following Christ, however, will lead us into direct confrontation with the world's values many of which are rooted in materialism and evil. Accepting and following Christ means commitment to a responsibility in faith. We see many so-called Christians proclaiming to everyone their strong faith and beliefs. They sing wholeheartedly during Mass or services; they religiously attend and participate in Bible studies and prayer meetings; and they boast their faith and religious fervor to friends and families at home. But rarely do we see these same people caring for the sick, visiting prisoners, or sponsoring programs to educate poor children or orphans. These so- called Christians, in whom some of us are included, pay a lot more lip service than real service. Real followers of Jesus are active participants of their faith. They practice what they preach and what is preached to them. They understand and realize that service of their faith is not an easy task. There inevitably will be conflicts with worldly values and as a result there will be suffering from those conflicts.
            As we strive to be real followers, we can be consoled to know that even with all the obstacles, conflicts and adversities we will encounter each day, Jesus will always be on our side. After all, being His disciple assures us of His presence, His counsel, and most of all, His love.
 
Reflection:
     "Then Jesus called the people and his disciples and said, "If you want to follow me, deny yourself, take up your cross and follow me."     In this modern world of instant gratification, where "Me! Me! Me! Now! Now! Now!" is the norm. Denying ourselves, taking up our cross and following Jesus seem s like a foolish thing to do. Some might question, "Why should we choose  to do the hard things through the hard way?" Others might think "Life is not about suffering." Moving through life with the least amount of hardship and achieving fame and fortune are goals we all have. But as Christians, is that what Jesus wants of us?  Is this what the little voice inside each of us says?  Do we even hear that little voice in the hustle and the bustle of our daily lives?
     Take some time to reflect on yourself. What drives you?  What does denying yourself mean to you? What is your cross? Are we following Jesus' path, or your own?  Pray to Jesus for grace and guidance in your struggle to live the life of a Christian.

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