Qua bài Tin Mừng hôm nay, Chúa Giêsu đã dậy chúng ta không nên phán xét bất cứ ai và chúng ta cũng chẳng có quyền xét đoán ai cả (ngoài chúa Giêsu là đấng thẩm phán nhân từ) bởi chúng ta không thể hiểu những gì đã và đang xảy ra cho người khác và chúng ta chẳng hiểu nổi những đau khổ riêng của họ. Hơn nữa chúng ta không có đủ những sự kiện bằng cớ để lên án người khác.
Chúa Giêsu đã nói một trong những lý do mà chúng ta thường làm hằng ngày là lên án người khác vì muốn tìm cách để dìm họ xuống và đưa mình lên cao hơn hơn ai hết. Trong khi chúng ta đang săm soi tập trung vào những thiếu sót nhỏ nhặt của người khác, mà chúng ta không nhìn ra cái sai, cái xấu của mình vì chúng ta đang bận rộn và tìm cách để che đậy những cái khuyết điểm nghiêm trọng của chính chúng ta; trong đó có những tội nói hành, nói xấu, nói sau lưng người khác đệ uy tín của họ. Mặt khác, chúng ta thường không thích hay miễn cưỡng để khen thưởng hay khíck lệ hay đánh giá về một người nào đó một cách khách quan.
Hôm nay Chúa muốn chúng ta hãy chịu khó nhìn vào chính mình một trung thực hơn và không nên xét đoán, phê bình những người khác một ách tiêu cực, Bời vì chúng ta thường nghĩ tốt về mình và nghĩ xấu về người khác, thích khoe khoang về mình nhiều hơn là những gì chúng ta cần phải nghĩ đến về những người khác nữa.
Lạy Chúa xin giúp chúng con biết lắng nghe, và đừng bao giờ xét đoán người khác, biết khiến tốn mà không khoe khoang về chính mình và nghĩ tới sự thật, và biết tôn trọng những người khác.
There must be few of us to whom today’s Gospel does not apply. How many of us can say that we never sit in judgment on others, that we never speak disparagingly of others? Gossiping is one of our favorite pastimes and it is done mostly in the absence of those we criticize. We don’t have the courage to say things to a person's face.
et, as Jesus says, we have no right to pass judgment on anyone because, so much of the time, we simply do not have all the facts nor can we enter into the mind of another person. And, as Jesus says, one of the reasons we knock people down is to lift ourselves up. While we are nitpicking focusing on the trivial failings of others, we are actually trying to cover up our own much more serious shortcomings — of which behind-the-back bitching of others is one. On the other hand, we are often very slow to offer an objective appraisal of another person when asked.
Let us take an honest look at ourselves and reflect on the content of our conversations with others. It usually says a lot more about ourselves than what we think we are saying about others.
Jesus said to his disciples: “Stop judging, that you may not be judged. For as you judge, so will you be judged, and the measure with which you measure will be measured out to you. Why do you notice the splinter in your brother’s eye, but do not perceive the wooden beam in your own eye?” Matthew 7:1–3
Sadly, this tendency is far more common than most of us would like to admit. We live in a world in which it is very common to condemn, criticize and judge. This growing secular tendency, in turn, powerfully influences our thinking and actions.
Why is it so easy to judge others? Why is it so easy to see the failures of others, dwell on their sin, point out their weaknesses and speak of their faults to others? Perhaps part of the reason is that many people are not at peace within their own souls. In an unfortunate way, condemning another brings with it a certain twisted satisfaction. But it’s a “satisfaction” that will never satisfy. The desire to condemn, criticize and judge will only grow all the stronger the more these actions are committed. If you struggle with these sins, then listen to the words of Jesus. “Stop judging…”
Oftentimes the person who judges others does not even realize they are judging. This is why our Lord poses the question, “Why do you notice the splinter in your brother’s eye, but do not perceive the wooden beam in your own eye?” If that stings even a little bit, then know that our Lord asks that question of you. And He asks it with deep love for you, desiring that you will hear Him, understand, and respond.
The truth is that being judgmental of others causes far more harm to the one who judges than to the one who is judged. Certainly being judged is not pleasant. But the act of being judged by others is not a sin. However, the act of judging others is a sin. And it can be a grave sin. This sin leaves the one who judges with an empty and angry heart. Love is lost in the soul who judges.
If these words seem unpleasant, that’s because they are. But sometimes we need to face the unpleasant truth in order to change. The Cross was unpleasant, but it was also the greatest act of love ever known. Facing our sin of judgmentalness is unpleasant, but doing so is the only way to be free. Honesty with ourselves is an act of love given to God, to ourselves and to those whom we need to stop judging.
Reflect, today, upon these challenging words from Jesus. Read the Scripture passage above a few times and then prayerfully ponder it. Use it as an examination of your own conscience. Try to be honest, humble and attentive to any ways that Jesus speaks this to you. Some will find that they have grave tendencies toward judgmentalness. Others will see less serious ways. But everyone who lacks complete perfection will find some ways in which they need to be more compassionate, merciful, forgiving and understanding of others. Be open to these truths and allow our Lord to lift the heavy burden of this sin from your own life.
My merciful Lord, You and You alone are the true Judge. Only You judge with mercy and justice. Give me the grace I need to abandon my own self-righteous judgmentalness so that I will be free to love You and to love others with my whole heart. Free me from the burden of these sins, dear Lord, so that I can more easily see Your goodness in others and rejoice in Your presence in their lives. Jesus, I trust in You.
Opening Prayer: Lord God, help me to see myself with true humility. Help me to see my strengths and weaknesses. Help me to know how I have collaborated with your grace and when I have rejected your help.
1. Three Promises to Abram: The First Reading, taken from Genesis 12, is one of the most important passages in the entire Old Testament. It contains the key to understanding all the events in the Bible from Abraham to Jesus Christ. In sum, God made three promises to Abram. The first was that he would make Abram a great nation. This promise was elevated to a covenant in Genesis 15 and was initially fulfilled under Moses, who brought the nation of Israel out of slavery and to the border of the land of Canaan promised to Abram. The second promise was that Abram’s name would be great. This means that Abram would be the start of a royal dynasty. This promise was also raised to the level of a covenant in Genesis 17. The promise and covenant were initially fulfilled under King David, who was promised an everlasting kingdom. The third promise was that Abram, in some mysterious way, would be a blessing for all nations. This promise was elevated to a covenant in Genesis 22 and was fulfilled in the death of Jesus, who poured out from his side the blessing and forgiveness of the Holy Spirit upon all nations in the New Covenant.
Opening Prayer: Lord, you know human nature so well! Bless me as I reflect on your words so that I may be a messenger of your mercy, not of judgment.
1. Stop Judging: Jesus’s command was pretty clear in this passage—in one sense. Rash judgment and criticism of others is a sin, one that can easily become a habitual pattern of mind and speech. It is this tendency Jesus warns us against here. Why is it that, in an emotional encounter, it can be a lot easier to criticize someone than to stay silent or praise them? Jesus said, “A good person out of the store of goodness in his heart produces good, but an evil person out of a store of evil produces evil; for from the fullness of the heart the mouth speaks” (Luke 6:45). We need to form our hearts to look at the positive in life’s circumstances! As St. Maximilian Kolbe says, “Do not criticize! To speak only of the faults of others does not represent total reality, for every man, in addition to his faults, also has virtues, a good side.”
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