Lạy Chúa Giêsu, xin dạy con biết yêu thương. Xin Chúa giúp con biết tăng cường sửa đổi những khuyết điểm của con. Xin giúp con biết tuân giữ tình yêu thương của Ngài bằng cách tuân giữ các điều răn của Ngài.
Chúa Giêsu vì yêu thương con người tội lỗi, Ngài đã hy sinh mạng sống của Ngài cho chúng ta và gọi chúng ta là bạn hữu của Ngài. Ngài ra dạy cho chúng ta là phải yêu thương nhau như Ngài yêu thương chúng ta. Tình yêu thương (bác ái) này là đức tính cao cả nhất trong các nhân đức thần học; nó bao hàm sự vâng phục Chúa, và tình yêu thương nhân hậu đối với nhau. Mệnh lệnh của Chúa Giêsu rất rõ ràng, nhưng sống theo như cách Chúa dạy chúng ta hôm nay là hãy yêu thương nhau thì chẳng dễ chút nào vì chính bản chất dễ sa ngã của chúng ta. Khi chúng ta chọn không sống trong sự yêu thương, thì chúng ta đã đánh đổi chính bản thân mình bởi vì chúng ta bỏ lỡ đi niềm vui đích thực mà Chúa Giêsu đã hứa ban cho chúng ta nếu chúng ta cố gắng sống theo điều răn Yêu Thương này. Thật là một niềm vui siêu nhiên vì có được sự an ủi trong thời gian đầy bất trắc này!
Lạy Chúa và là Thiên Chúa của chúng con, những lời hứa của Ngài thật là niềm an ủi cho chúng con. Xin dạy chúng con không ngừng hướng về Chúa để được hướng dẫn và được ơn khôn ngoan. Xin Chúa hãy thêm sức mạnh cho những nỗ lực yếu đuối của chúng con trong việc sống theo Chúa, tuân giữ các giới răn của Chúa và yêu thương người khác như Chúa đã yêu chúng con. Xo₫in Chúa giữ cho chúng con không bị cám dỗ bởi những niềm vui, hạnh phúc tađm bợ trong thế giớ này hay sự hài lòng ngắn hạn; Xin Chúa hướng dẫn chúng con biết sống theo như cách của Chúa.
Lạy Chúa, hôm nay nhờ ân điển của Chúa, chúng con sẽ dâng lên Chúa những giây phút đầu tiên mỗi ngày qua giờ kinh cầu nguyện và xin Chúa đốt cháy trái tim chúng con để chúng con biết dành hết tình yêu thương cho Chúa và cho tất cả mọi người như con cái Chúa.
Encountering Christ:
Joy through Loving: Jesus invites us to live a life of joy and peace, secure in the love of our Father and Creator. He wishes for us to remain in his love and delight in his friendship. We are chosen to live abundant lives as friends of Jesus our Savior. Learning to love as Jesus loved is the task of a lifetime. Father Thomas Wells married hundreds of couples during his life as a parish priest. He exhorted at every wedding: “I beg you, I beg you, I beg you, every day and every night of your life, get down on your knees and ask the Lord to teach you how to love!” No matter our vocation, no matter our state in life, this should be our constant prayer.
Just prior to the passage quoted above, Jesus says, “You are my friends if you do what I command you.” Is that the measure of true friendship? That we do what our friend commands us to do? That depends upon which friend we are speaking about.
There are many images we use for God. We call Him Father, Savior, Master, Lord, King, Redeemer, Spirit and Friend. When it comes to God as our divine Friend, it is important to understand the nature of that friendship properly. Jesus’ friendship is not one that simply makes us “buddies.” Friendship with our Lord is not the same as a friendship between two equals. He is God. And because He is God, our friendship with Him takes on unique characteristics that are not present in other friendships. With that said, there could be no greater friend than the Lord Himself.
Among humans, our friendships have various foundations. It could be that two people have mutual interests and they enjoy engaging in those interests together. It could be that two people have spent much pleasant time together since childhood. Or it could be that two people have endured some difficulty together and that experience has bonded them together. But according to Saint Thomas Aquinas, friendship in its purest form is based on just one thing: mutual charity.
Charity is the form of love that is purely selfless. It’s a way of relating to another in which a person’s sole focus is the good of the other. It is not based on one’s own self interests. It’s not a matter of “what do I get out of it?” In 1 Corinthians 13:4–8, St. Paul defines the love of charity this way: “Love is patient, love is kind. It is not jealous, it is not pompous, it is not inflated, it is not rude, it does not seek its own interests, it is not quick-tempered, it does not brood over injury, it does not rejoice over wrongdoing but rejoices with the truth. It bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never fails.” This is not only the definition of charity, it is also the only foundation for true friendship.
When you consider all of these qualities of charity, you will find that God relates to us in each of these ways. For that reason, God offers us the purest friendship possible. Whether or not we reciprocate these qualities to God will determine the depth of the bond of friendship that we establish with Him. But there is more. When we love God, we must love Him in a way that is proper and proportionate to Who God is. For example, if we offer charity to God, we seek to fulfill only God’s interests and rejoice in the Truth of Who He is. Thus, the charity we offer to God comes in the form of worship. He is God and is worthy of worship, adoration, surrender, trust and perfect obedience. When it is God we are loving, the very essence of the Person we love requires these responses.
One beautiful and consoling thing to recognize with this form of charity given to God is that it also establishes a true friendship with God. When we offer our worship to God, we are in a position to receive the very life of God in return. And the giving of ourselves, coupled with the reception of the life of God, establishes a bond of holy friendship that will transform us, unite us with Him and fulfill us to perfection. Friendship with God makes us one with Him and opens us to receive everything that He shares with us—namely, His very Self.
Reflect, today, upon the invitation Jesus has offered you to enter into a true friendship with Him. This means that God becomes the center of your life. It means that you seek to give yourself, selflessly and without reserve, to Him Who is deserving of all your love. It means you choose worship and obedience to perfection. The reward of such love is that you are able to enter into a bond that is so holy, so pure and so fulfilling that it completes you, enabling you to become who you were meant to be.
My God and true Friend, You offer me everything in life. You offer me Your perfect love, given fully and without reserve. I pray that I will reciprocate that depth of love and offer to You all that You deserve. I offer You my love, worship and obedience, dear Lord. May this mutual love form a bond that will never end. Jesus, I trust in You.
1. Love One Another: At the Last Supper, Jesus revealed the great mystery of the Holy Trinity. God is Father, Son, and Spirit. God is revealed by Jesus as a communion of love. The Father eternally loves the Son and the Son eternally loves the Father. Their mutual eternal love “spirates” (breathes forth) the Third Person of the Trinity – God the Holy Spirit. This eternal Triune communion of Love offers us a share in their divine love. This is the whole purpose of creation. And when human beings sinned and broke the bond of love with God, the Father sent the Son to the world: “For God so loved the world that he gave his only Son, so that everyone who believes in him might not perish but might have eternal life” (John 3:16). Love, we see, is much more than a passive feeling, it is an action. Whether or not I love someone shouldn’t be based on how the other person makes me feel. Love is about how people can give themselves to one another for each other’s true good. It is about how I can give of myself and sacrifice myself for another person and their good. God’s love is not selfish or self-centered but self-giving. God the Father doesn’t hold back when he sees his children in need. He seeks their true good and sends his Son to save them and reestablish them in divine friendship. God is not a master who seeks to benefit from his servants, but a Father who wants to see his children flourish and enjoy his divine life and love.