Saturday, November 7, 2026

Bài giảng Chúa nhật thứ 32 Thường niên (A)

Suy Niệm Tin Mừng thứ Bẩy tuần 31 Thường Niên

Suy Niệm Tin Mừng thứ Bẩy tuần 31 Thường Niên
Ca dao Việtnam chúng ta có câu :"Có tiền mua tiên cũng được... " Điều này là hoàn toàn đúng, nếu xét rằng hầu hết mọi người chúng ta cố gắng để tích lũy tiền bạc và sự giàu có trong cuộc đời của chúng ta, và nghĩ rằng của cải này sẽ giúp chúng ta an tâm hơn cho cuộc sống tương lai của con cháu... Tiền của thật sự nó không phải là sự ác. Khi tiền của được sử dụng đúng cách, đúng mục đích thì nó có thể làm được nhiều điều tốt đẹp. Cách mà chúng ta cư xử và sử dụng số tiền đó sẽ xác định được việc chúng ta đang kiểm soát sự giàu có của chúng ta hay là việc chúng ta đang bị sự giàu có, tiền của này đang kiểm soát chúng ta.
            Chúa Giêsu không lên án việc chúng ta sử dụng tiền của. Nhưng trong thực tế, Ngài vẫn luôn khuyến khích việc sử dụng tiền bạc miễn là nó được dungmột cách khôn ngoan và thực hiện cho những việc tốt lành. "Khi chút ít mà trung tín, thì nhiều cũng mới trung tín; khi chút ít mà đã bất lương, thì nhiều, cũng bất lương.  Vậy nếu nơi tiền của bất lương, các ngươi không trung tín, thì của chân thật ai nào sẽ ký thác cho các ngươi? (Lc 16: 10-11). Rõ ràng, Chúa Giêsu coi tiền như là một phương tiện hơn là sự kết thúc. Chúng ta đều là những người quản lý của những ân sủng và sự giàu có mà Thiên Chúa đã ban cho chúng ta.Chúng ta phải biết sử dụng những món quà này để giúp chính mình và những người khác có thể có được những thứ "của cải chính đáng" mà Thiên Chúa đã chuẩn bị cho chúng ta ở trên thiên đường.
            Kho báu của chúng ta và quyền thừa kế là phải là sự hiệp nhất trong Đấng Tạo Hóa của chúng ta.  Tâm hồn của chúng ta phải luôn luôn được đặt vàosự hiệp nhất với Thiên Chúa mà không phải đạt trên những thứ của cài vật chất của thế giới này, Có gì thường được xem là quan trọng trong thế giới này không phải là những thứ mà Thiên Chúa muốn. "chúng ta không thể vừa phục vụ choThiên Chúa, vừa làm nô lệ cho tiền bạc" (Lc 16: 13). Chúng ta nên chọn những gì?
 
REFLECTION Saturday 31st Ordinary
We're all familiar with the saying, "Money makes the world go `round." This is quite true, considering that most people try to accumulate money and riches in their lifetime, thinking that these will give them security and peace of mind. Money by itself is not evil. When used properly, it can do a lot of good. It is how we treat and use money that determines whether we control our wealth or we allow it to control us.
Jesus himself doesn't condemn the use of money. In fact, he encourages its use as long as it is wisely done and for the good. "The man who can be trusted in little things can be trusted in great; the man who is dishonest in little things will be dishonest in great" (Lk 16 : 10). Obviously, Jesus considers money ("little [basic] things") more as a means than as the end. We are all stewards of the gifts and riches that God has given us. We have to use these gifts to help ourselves and others to obtain the "genuine riches" that God has prepared for us in Heaven.
Our true treasure and birthright is to be united with our Creator. Our hear t should always be set on being united with God and not on the material things of this world. What's usually considered important in this world is not what God wants. "You cannot be the slave both of God and of money" (Lk 16 : 13). What do we choose?
 
Saturday of the Thirty-first Week in Ordinary Time 2026
Jesus said to his disciples: “I tell you, make friends for yourselves with dishonest wealth, so that when it fails, you will be welcomed into eternal dwellings. The person who is trustworthy in very small matters is also trustworthy in great ones; and the person who is dishonest in very small matters is also dishonest in great ones.”  Luke 16:9–10
Today’s Gospel begins with a perplexing command: “Make friends for yourselves with dishonest wealth, so that when it fails, you will be welcomed into eternal dwellings.” At first glance, Jesus seems to present a contradiction. How can wealth that is described as “dishonest” be something we are encouraged to use to make friends?
In this passage, the phrase “dishonest wealth” does not refer primarily to money obtained through immoral means, such as theft or fraud. Rather, it refers to this world’s temporal wealth, which is often tainted by human sin and selfishness. It is “unrighteous” in that it is fleeting, easily misused, and frequently becomes an idol. Yet Jesus teaches that even this worldly wealth can become a source of grace when used rightly—that is, when it is placed at the service of the Kingdom of God.
To “make friends” with this wealth means to use it for works of mercy: feeding the hungry, sheltering the homeless, caring for the poor, and supporting the Church. These acts of love create spiritual bonds—“friends” who will, as Jesus says, “welcome you into eternal dwellings.” The saints and the poor who benefit from our charity may become our intercessors before God. In this way, temporal goods are transformed into eternal treasure.
Think about money. How do you see it? The lure of money is strong. It’s very common for people to daydream about becoming rich. We might imagine the nice vacations we can take, the new car or homes we can purchase, and the temporal security we could enjoy. As a side thought, we might also think about the good we could do for family and others.
Because this lure is often strong, we need to be vigilant when it comes to money and material possessions. It’s easy to justify wealth, just as the Pharisees did. But what Jesus said to them, He will also say to us when we are overly attached to wealth and use what we have selfishly: “You justify yourselves in the sight of others, but God knows your hearts; for what is of human esteem is an abomination in the sight of God” (Luke 16:15). The selfish attachment to money and material possessions is “an abomination in the sight of God.”
This can be difficult to hear, so it is beneficial to meditate on this Gospel passage. Everything Jesus said is meant to draw us out of the foolishness of sinful attachments—abominations is God’s sight—and into the wisdom of spiritual purity and poverty of heart.
Jesus follows His lesson on dishonest wealth with a lesson in integrity: “The person who is trustworthy in very small matters is also trustworthy in great ones.” Faithfulness in seemingly minor responsibilities reveals the moral character that prepares us for greater spiritual stewardship. In God’s eyes, material wealth is a very small matter—that is, God doesn’t hope and pray that we are generous because He needs our money. He desires that we are generous because of the virtue it forms in us, as well as the benefit it brings to others. If, therefore, we misuse even the very small matter of material wealth, how can we be entrusted with the true riches of grace?
Reflect today on how you see money. How deeply does it affect your imagination, your choices, and your peace? The pull of wealth is strong, but grace is stronger. If you find within yourself any disordered desire for material gain, ask our Lord to purify your heart. Pray for the grace to see wealth not as an end, but as a means to serve others, to advance the Gospel, and to grow in virtue. In the end, what matters is not how much we possess, but how faithfully we have loved with what we’ve been given. Use every temporal good in a way that echoes into eternity.
Most generous Lord, all that I have is Yours. You are the Origin and Sustainer of all things. Please free me from every inordinate desire for money and material possessions. Grant me the grace to keep my eyes fixed on the true riches of Your grace, mercy, and the promise of eternal life. May I offer all that I am and all that I have to You, for Your glory, and for the salvation of souls. Jesus, I trust in You.
 
Saturday of the Thirty-first Week in Ordinary Time 2026
Opening Prayer: Lord God, you alone are worthy of my deepest love and devotion. Purify my heart of every attachment that competes with you, and teach me to use the goods of this world in the service of your kingdom. Grant me the grace to be trustworthy in small and great matters, to seek your approval above human esteem, and to treasure the riches that endure forever.
Encountering the Word of God
 
 
 
1. The Dishonest, but Prudent Steward: In the Gospel of Luke, Jesus has just justified his outreach to sinners and addressed the parables of the lost and found to the Pharisees. With the Parable of the Dishonest Steward, he turns his attention to the proper use of wealth. Earlier, Jesus spoke of a faithful and prudent steward (Luke 12:42). Yesterday, he presented a dishonest but prudent steward (Luke 16:1–8). Although Jesus does not commend the steward’s dishonesty, he challenges his disciples to learn from the man’s foresight. Jesus now explains the parable by drawing out three lessons. First, earthly wealth should be used to prepare for eternal life. Second, faithfulness in small matters reveals whether we can be trusted with greater responsibilities. Third, we cannot serve both God and mammon. These lessons are closely connected: our use of earthly possessions reveals what we value, and our everyday decisions form our hearts for either faithful service or selfishness. Jesus repeats the need for trustworthiness. If we are dishonest in small matters, we will be dishonest in great ones. If we are unfaithful with what belongs to another, we cannot expect to be entrusted with what is truly ours. The lesson is straightforward: our relationship with material possessions is not separate from our relationship with God. How we handle money, fulfill obligations, and treat those who depend on us reveals the kind of stewards we have become.
2. Make Friends with Dishonest Wealth: Jesus commands his disciples to make friends for themselves with “dishonest wealth” so that, when it fails, they may be welcomed into eternal dwellings. The expression refers to earthly wealth, which belongs to a fallen and passing world and can easily become an occasion for injustice and sin. Jesus is not encouraging his followers to acquire money dishonestly. Rather, he teaches them to use material possessions in a way that serves eternal purposes. As Gadenz explains, Jesus calls his disciples to use their wealth to prepare for an eternal welcome, just as the steward used his resources to secure a welcome into earthly homes (The Gospel of Luke, 282). The difference is that Christian generosity must be rooted in righteousness and charity. We cannot buy our way into heaven, but our willingness to share what we have can demonstrate that our hearts belong to God. Jesus also calls wealth “what belongs to another” and contrasts it with “true wealth.” Our earthly possessions are entrusted to us for a time; they do not constitute the lasting riches God desires to give us. True wealth includes the life of grace, growth in holiness, communion with God, and the inheritance of eternal life. Faithfulness in managing temporal goods prepares us to receive these greater gifts. This teaching invites us to examine our priorities. Do we use our money merely to increase our comfort and security, or do we also consider how it can relieve suffering and support the work of the Gospel? Do we regard our possessions as exclusively our own, or do we recognize our responsibility to those in need? When we give generously and act justly, we demonstrate that material wealth is our servant rather than our master.
3. Serving God Rather Than Mammon: Jesus concludes with a stark warning: “You cannot serve God and mammon.” Mammon represents wealth when it becomes an object of trust, devotion, and allegiance. Money itself is not evil, but it can become a rival to God when we allow it to determine our decisions and shape our desires. We may profess to serve the Lord while making financial security, possessions, or social status the ultimate measure of success. The Pharisees provide a sobering example. Luke tells us that they loved money and sneered at Jesus’ teaching. Their response reveals the problem: rather than allowing the Word of God to challenge their attachments, they dismissed it. Jesus exposes the contradiction between their desire to justify themselves before others and the condition of their hearts before God. What people admire is not necessarily what God values. The temptation to seek human esteem remains powerful. We may measure success by income, possessions, professional standing, or the admiration of others. We may even use our wealth to create an appearance of generosity while neglecting the poor or avoiding the demands of justice. Jesus reminds us that God sees beyond appearances. He knows whether our actions arise from love or self-interest. The remedy is not necessarily to abandon every possession, but to place everything at the service of God. We must cultivate detachment, practice generosity, honor our obligations, and remain willing to sacrifice material advantages when faithfulness requires it. Above all, we must ask whom we are serving through our daily decisions. When we love God above all things, wealth can become an instrument of charity rather than an object of devotion. Our hearts are freed to pursue the true riches that only God can give.
 
Saturday of the Thirty-First Week in Ordinary Time
“The person who is trustworthy in very small matters is also trustworthy in great ones; and the person who is dishonest in very small matters is also dishonest in great ones.”  Luke 16:10
What are the “small matters” in life? Most likely, if you asked many different people from all walks of life this question, then you would receive many different answers. But if we consider the context of this statement of Jesus, then it is clear that one of the primary small matters of which He speaks is our use of money.
Many people live as though the attainment of wealth were of the highest importance. There are many who dream of becoming rich. Some regularly play the lottery in the very unlikely hope that they will hit it big. Others dedicate themselves to much hard work in their careers so that they can advance, make more money and, so they believe, become happier as they become wealthier. And others regularly daydream about what they would do if they were rich. But from the perspective of God, material wealth is a very small and unimportant matter. Money is useful insofar as it is one of the ordinary means by which we go about providing for ourselves and our families. But it truly is small in importance when it comes to the divine perspective.
With that said, one way to be entrusted by Jesus with “great” matters is to use your money appropriately. We become “trustworthy” in this small matter of money when we only give it the value that it has. In other words, we must see money only as one means to the end of fulfilling God’s perfect will. When we work to rid ourselves of excessive desires and dreams of riches, and when we use what we have in accord with God’s will, then this act on our part will open the door to our Lord to entrust us with much more. What is that “much more?” It’s the spiritual matters that pertain to our eternal salvation and the salvation of others. God wants to entrust to you the great responsibility of building His Kingdom on earth. He wants to use you to share His saving message with others. But He will first wait until you show yourself trustworthy in small matters, such as using your money well. And then, as you fulfill His will in these less important ways, you will begin to see Him call you to greater works.
Reflect, today, upon the fact that God wants great things from you. The goal of all of our lives is to be used by God in incredible ways. If this is something you desire, then do every small act in your life with great care. Show many small acts of kindness. Try to be thoughtful of others. Put others’ needs before your own. And commit yourself to using the money you have for God’s glory and in accord with His will. As you do these small things, you will begin to be amazed at how God is able to begin entrusting you with more, and, through you, great things will happen that have eternal effects in your life and in the lives of others.
My trustworthy Lord, You were entrusted with the greatest good ever known. Your Father in Heaven entrusted to You the salvation of the world. Please help me to share in this task by being faithful to Your holy will in every small way. As I seek to serve You in the small matters of life, I pray that I will be able to be used for even greater ones. My life is Yours, dear Lord. Use me as You will. Jesus, I trust in You.
 
Saturday 31st Ordinary time 2025
Opening Prayer: Lord God, I love you above all things. A day in your heavenly court is better and worth more than all the kingdoms of this world. I choose to serve you today and help my brothers and sisters in need.
Encountering the Word of God
1. Make Friends with Dishonest Wealth: The purpose of the Parable of the Dishonest Steward is not to invite us to practice dishonesty, act fraudulently, or “cook the books,” to help ourselves. When Jesus reveals the meaning of the parable (Luke 16:9-15), he refers to how the steward was prudent to use “dishonest wealth” to be welcomed into earthly dwellings. Likewise, we are to use our earthly wealth to be welcomed into eternal dwellings. If the dishonest steward was prudent enough to plan his earthly future to receive a welcome into people’s homes, how much more ought the faithful and prudent steward of the Lord prudently plan a heavenly future to be welcomed into the Lord’s eternal dwelling (see Gadenz, The Gospel of Luke, 282). Drawing out the lesson, Jesus teaches that we cannot serve two masters: “Those who trust in wealth are in effect serving mammon as if it were a god. Faithful disciples will instead serve as good stewards of all that God has entrusted to them, generously sharing what they have with others” (Gadenz, The Gospel of Luke, 283).
2. We are Known by God: When we read passages like Romans 16:3-27, it raises the question of why so many passages in the Bible are lists of names. For example, the early chapters of Genesis are full of genealogies. The Book of Numbers includes the results of two censuses of the people of Israel. The first 9 chapters of 1 Chronicles are a list of names. Isn’t there a better use for entire chapters of God’s revealed Word? What is God telling us in these chapters that we are tempted to skip over? One important truth is that we are known and loved individually by God. The Bible doesn’t just record the stories of great rulers but includes the names of humble family members. Name after name after name… And while we know almost nothing about them, they are fully known by God. Another truth that comes out in Paul’s conclusion to the Letter to the Romans is that we form one family in Christ. He is eager to greet all of his brothers and sisters when he finally gets to Rome.
3. God knows your Hearts: Not only does God know each one of us by name, but God, as Jesus teaches in the Gospel, knows our hearts. Jesus calls out the Pharisees because they presented themselves as holy on the outside, but inside were full of corruption. Human beings can see the outside of a person and their exterior works. But God can see the heart and judge it. It has been said that we barely know our own hearts. It is difficult to know why we choose to do what we do or to say what we say. And yet, all of this is known to God. He can see our hearts when they are prideful and when they are humble, when they are full of sorrow and when they are full of joy, and when they act with purity of intention and when they are selfish. As the Letter to the Hebrews teaches: “Indeed, the word of God is living and effective, sharper than any two-edged sword, penetrating even between soul and spirit, joints and marrow, and able to discern reflections and thoughts of the heart. No creature is concealed from him, but everything is naked and exposed to the eyes of him to whom we must render an account” (Hebrews 4:12-13).

Suy Niệm Tin Mừng Thừ Sáu Tuần 31 Thường Niên

Suy Niệm
Tin Mừng Thừ Sáu Tuần 31 Thường Niên. Luke 16:1-8
Có một câu chuyện kể rằng, Ở làng nghèo xứ đó, có hai mẹ con sống với nhau trong cảnh nghẻo túng, Khi người con trai lớn lên, anh đã yêu một người phụ nữ, nhưng người phụ nữ này không tha thiết với anh ta lắm.  Vì thế có một lúc anh ta đã nói với cô ta rằng: anh sẽ làm bất cứ điều gì cô ấy muốn nếu cô ấy đồng ý kết hôn với anh ta.  Cô ta nghe thế mới nói đùa với anh ta la: "Tôi sẽ chỉ đồng ý kết hôn với anh nếu anh móc trái tim của mẹ anh ra và mang đến cho tôi. Chỉ bằng cách này, anh mới có thể chứng minh được tình yêu của anh " Thế rồi tối hôm ấy, trong bóng tối của màn đêm anh chàng  trai này đã vào phòng của mẹ anh, lấy dao nhọn và  đâm vào long ngực mẹ mình, anh ta cắt trái tim của mẹ mình,  cầm trái tim rên tay với bàn tay vấy máu và chạy tới nhà của người phụ nữ anh yêu. Nhưng trong khi chạy với trái tim của mẹ anh trong tay, anh vấp ngã. Trái tim của mẹ anh đã nói với anh: "Hãy cẩn thận, con trai của mẹ."
            Người con trai si tình đã nghĩ sai khi tin rằng nếu anh ta có thể có được trái tim của mẹ mình, anh ta sẽ giành được chiến thắng và chiếm được trái tim của người phụ nữ anh yêu. "Hãy cẩn thận con trai của mẹ..." mẹ của anh dường như đã nhẹ nhàng nhắc nhở anh: rằng " Hãy cẩn thận con ơi, Tìm cho đúng nơi để đặt trái tim của con, con trai của mẹ. "
           Trong Tin Mừng hôm nay, ông chủ ca ngợi người quản lý không phải vì sự bất trung, xảo quyệt của người đầy tớ, nhưng vì sự thận trọng, biết tính toán tương lai của anh ta. Qua 2 câu chuyện, Chúa Giêsu đã dạy chúng ta ngày hôm nay là nếu chúng ta muốn trở nên con cái thực sự và đáng yêu của sự sáng, chúng ta cần phải đoán quyết, biết sáng tạo và khôn ngoan trong việc xử dụng thời gian và nỗ lực của chúng ta trong việc theo chân Chúa khi chúng ta thực hiện các hoạt động và sinh hoạt trần thế của chúng ta.
 
Friday 31st Sunday in Ordinary Time Rom. 15:14-21; Lk. 16:1-8
Once there lived a poor mother and her son. When he grew up, he fell in love with a woman who was not serious about him. He told her he would do anything she ask if only she would marry him. Half in jest, she told him: “I will only marry you if you cut out your mother’s heart and bring it to me. Only in this way can you prove your love.” In the darkness of the night he went into his mother’s room, took from his belt a knife and plunged it into her breast. He cut her heart and run with bloodstained hands towards the home of his loved one.   As he ran with the heart of his mother in his hands, he stumbled and fell. His mother’s heart said to him: “Be careful, my son.”  The son wrongly believed that if only he could get the heart of his mother he would win the heart of the woman he loved.  Be careful my son…” It was as though his mother was gently reminding him: “”be careful where you put your heart, my son.”
            In today’s gospel, the master praises the steward not for his dishonesty but for his prudence.
Jesus is teaching us today that if we are to be real and effective children of light we need to be decisive, creative and wise in spending our time and effort in following God’s as we carry out our worldly activities.
 
Friday of the Thirty-first Week in Ordinary Time 2026
Jesus said to his disciples, “A rich man had a steward who was reported to him for squandering his property. He summoned him and said, ‘What is this I hear about you? Prepare a full account of your stewardship, because you can no longer be my steward.’” Luke 16:1–2
At first glance, today’s parable can be puzzling and even unsettling, as Jesus appears to praise deceit. However, when read in light of Catholic tradition, its deeper spiritual meaning becomes clear and richly instructive. This parable is not about how to succeed in the world, but about how to live wisely in view of eternal life.
In the parable, the steward is accused of squandering his master’s goods, which is a serious offense. Facing dismissal, he devises a plan to reduce the debts owed to his master, hoping to earn favor with the debtors so that they might welcome him into their homes once he is out of a job. The master does not praise the steward’s dishonesty, but he does commend his prudence and shrewd foresight in preparing for the future. This becomes a symbol of the diligence we must exercise to prepare our souls for eternal life.
The steward finds himself at a moment of reckoning. He must give an account of his stewardship. The steward’s moment of judgment mirrors the spiritual truth that we are called to give an account of how we have used our time, talents, and treasures. The steward poses a question to himself: “What shall I do?” That same question ought to echo within our own hearts. How do I prepare now for what comes next?
It is tempting to live as if this life were our final end, as if earthly success, comfort, and security were our primary goals. Though we may hope in Heaven, its mysterious and intangible nature can lead us to treat it as a distant dream rather than a present reality.
The moment when the steward is called to account, however, does not simply symbolize the hour of our death. Rather, it points to this present moment. Each day, we are called to live in such a way that we are continually preparing to meet our Lord. Every decision, every act of charity, every use of our material resources is part of our ongoing accounting before God. Knowing that our time in this world is short in comparison to eternity, our ongoing question for self-reflection is: “What shall I do today to prepare for Heaven and eternal glory with the angels and saints?” This is not a selfish question when we understand the correct answer.
The act of reducing the debt of his master’s debtors reveals the wisdom of forgiveness, charity, and mercy. If we spend this life helping others reduce their debt before God—by evangelizing, witnessing to His mercy, and giving of ourselves selflessly and sacrificially—then when we stand before the Just Judge at the end of our earthly lives, God will commend us for acting with His wisdom, prudently fulfilling His divine will by living charitably toward others. Of course, we do not reduce others’ debts apart from God; we help them discover and accept the forgiveness Christ has already won for them, lessening the burden of sin through grace.
Like this steward, the best way for us to prepare for Heaven is to help reduce the debt others owe to God. Sin incurs a debt. Though Jesus fully paid that debt by His Passion and Death, the merits of His Sacrifice apply to us only when we humble ourselves before God and change. We reduce another’s debt before God when our lives help others turn from sin and accept God’s mercy, poured forth from the Cross, because we wisely and charitably helped them to change.
Reflect today on how God is calling you to be a steward of mercy. Whom can you help to turn toward God? What debts can you help reduce? By drawing others to Christ, you also prepare your own soul for the eternal reward He promises. Turn your eyes to Heaven and live this life with that eternal perspective, and you will be prepared to give a full accounting of your stewardship before God when the time of accounting has begun.
My Lord and Just Judge, Though You have fully paid the debt of sin that I owe, You ask that I humble myself before You to receive that precious gift. Help me to open my heart completely to Your mercy and forgiveness, and then to go forth diligently, seeking ways to help reduce the debt of others. May my life be a witness to Your grace, drawing souls to conversion, so that together we may share in the eternal rewards of Heaven. Jesus, I trust in You.
 
Friday of the Thirty-first Week in Ordinary Time 2026
Opening Prayer: Lord God, you have entrusted me with many gifts and blessings. Teach me to administer them with wisdom, generosity, and integrity. Deliver me from the temptation to seek merely earthly security, and help me to use the goods of this world to attain the riches of your Kingdom. May I prove faithful in my stewardship and prudent in preparing for the eternal dwelling you have promised your children.
Encountering the Word of God
1. The Parable of the Dishonest Steward: The Gospel of Luke often praises the blessings of poverty and warns us about the dangers of wealth. Today’s parable concerns the wise administration of earthly wealth to attain eternal glory. While the steward in the parable is dishonest but prudent, Jesus’ disciples are called to be both trustworthy and prudent. The steward manifests a whole series of vices. He squandered and mismanaged his master’s property. He was unwilling to undertake manual labor and too ashamed to beg. Finally, he engaged in fraud when he reduced the debts owed to his master. One debtor owed one hundred measures of olive oil, and the steward reduced the amount by half. Another owed one hundred measures of wheat, and his debt was reduced by twenty percent. Jesus’ parables often employ an unexpected twist. Here, instead of the master simply flying into a rage, he commends the dishonest steward for acting prudently. Jesus explains that the children of this world are often more prudent in dealing with their own generation than the children of light. The steward recognized that his position was about to end and acted decisively to secure his future. Jesus’ disciples should show at least as much foresight in preparing for their eternal future. If the steward acted shrewdly to secure a welcome into earthly dwellings, how much more should we use our earthly wealth to prepare for a welcome into heavenly dwellings?
2. Making Friends with Earthly Wealth: Jesus’ teaching does not endorse the steward’s dishonesty. Rather, he draws attention to the steward’s foresight and determination. The steward knew that his present position would not last forever, so he used the resources available to him to prepare for what lay ahead. Jesus calls his disciples to exercise similar foresight, but with a different purpose and through righteous means. Earthly wealth is temporary, and its value depends on how we use it. Money can be hoarded for personal comfort and prestige, or it can be used to provide for the poor, support the Church’s mission, and serve those in need. When we share our blessings with others, we make friends through our generosity and prepare for the day when earthly possessions will no longer be of use to us. The poor whom we serve, and the good accomplished through our generosity, become part of our preparation for eternity. Jesus will make this lesson explicit in the following verses: “Make friends for yourselves with dishonest wealth, so that when it fails, you will be welcomed into eternal dwellings” (Luke 16:9). The point is not that we can purchase salvation, but that genuine faith expresses itself in charity. We cannot take our possessions with us when we die, but we can use them now to love God and our neighbor. Christian prudence looks beyond immediate gratification and considers the eternal consequences of our choices.
3. Prudence in the Service of Faithfulness: The steward’s prudence is admirable only in a limited sense. He recognizes his predicament and acts decisively, but he does so dishonestly. His example challenges Jesus’ disciples to combine the foresight of the children of this world with the integrity expected of the children of light. We must not only ask whether our actions are effective, but also whether they are good and pleasing to God. Prudence is the virtue that helps us discern the right means to achieve a good end. Christian prudence requires us to consider how our decisions affect our relationship with God and our responsibility toward others. It leads us to plan for the future, resist impulsive spending, provide responsibly for our families, and make generous provision for those who are struggling. It also reminds us that our time, abilities, relationships, and material possessions are gifts to be administered faithfully. Ultimately, the Christian steward lives with eternity in view. We do not know when our earthly stewardship will end, but we know that we will one day give an account of how we used what God entrusted to us. Let us therefore imitate the steward’s foresight without imitating his dishonesty. May we be wise enough to prepare for eternity and faithful enough to use every blessing in the service of God and our neighbor.
 
Friday of the Thirty-first Week in Ordinary Time
Opening Prayer: Heavenly Father, today I remember my family members, friends, and acquaintances who have passed from this life. I entrust each of them to your infinite mercy, praying that they may be purified of every remaining attachment to sin and welcomed into the fullness of your heavenly kingdom. Strengthen my hope in the resurrection of the dead, deepen my love for those who have gone before me, and prepare me to share eternal life with you.
Encountering the Word of God
1. The Gift of Eternal Life: The Gospel of John focuses especially on the gift of eternal life. Jesus promises that everyone who sees the Son and believes in him may have eternal life and that he will raise them up on the last day. Eternal life, therefore, is both a present gift and a future promise. Through faith in Jesus, we begin to share in God’s own life here and now. We receive his grace, grow in friendship with him, and are gradually transformed into his likeness. Yet our journey toward eternal life is not complete when we first believe. Faith must take root and bear fruit in a life of love and obedience. Although God desires our salvation and offers us the grace we need to persevere, we must freely cooperate with his grace. We can deepen our friendship with God through prayer, the sacraments, and works of charity, but we can also wound or even reject that friendship through sin. Our hope rests in Christ, who promises not to reject those who come to him and who desires to lose none of those entrusted to him by the Father. Today, as we pray for the faithful departed, we renew our hope that God will bring his work of grace in us to completion and raise us to the fullness of eternal life.
2. The Gift of Immortality: The passage from the Book of Wisdom offers another reason for hope as we remember those who have died. It speaks of the souls of the just as being in God's hands, beyond the reach of the suffering and apparent defeat they experienced in this world. The Book of Wisdom provides one of the clearest Old Testament affirmations of life beyond physical death, offering consolation to those who trust in God's justice and mercy (Giszczak, Wisdom of Solomon, 51). Wisdom distinguishes between physical death, which all human beings experience, and the spiritual death that separates the wicked from God. The righteous may suffer persecution and appear defeated in this life, but their suffering does not have the final word. Like gold purified in a furnace, they are tested and purified through their trials. In God's time, they will be vindicated and shine forth in glory. This hope is rooted not in human strength or achievement but in trusting communion with God. As Giszczak explains, faith enables the righteous to understand the truth and abide in love; their final communion with God fulfills the deepest desires of both intellect and will. Truth and love are ultimately inseparable (Wisdom of Solomon, 52). The gift of immortality is thus more than the continuation of existence after death. It is the hope of sharing forever in the life of God. As we pray for our departed loved ones, we entrust them to the One who knows their hearts, purifies them in his mercy, and desires to bring them into the joy of his presence.
3. The Gift of Union with Christ: The Letter to the Romans reveals the foundation of our hope in eternal life and immortality: our union with Jesus Christ. Through Baptism, we are united to Christ in his death so that, just as he was raised from the dead by the glory of the Father, we too might walk in newness of life. Paul teaches that if we have died with Christ, we believe that we will also live with him. Since Christ has been raised from the dead and death no longer has power over him, those who belong to him can look forward to sharing in his victory. This union with Christ is not merely a promise for the future. It begins now as we die to sin and live by the grace of the Holy Spirit. We must continually turn away from whatever enslaves us and grow in holiness, virtue, and charity. Just as genuine faith bears fruit in good works, our union with Christ should become increasingly visible in the way we love God and our neighbor. On All Souls Day, we remember that our earthly pilgrimage will end in physical death, but death does not have the final word for those who belong to Christ. We pray for the faithful departed because we believe in the communion of saints and entrust them to God’s merciful care. We also examine our own lives, asking whether we are growing closer to Christ each day. The more deeply we live in him now, the more confidently we can hope to share in his Resurrection and dwell with him forever.
 
Friday 31st Sunday in Ordinary Time 2023 -Luke 16:1-8
opening Prayer: Dear Lord, I come before you asking to grow in faith, hope, and love. Grant me the grace to know and love you just a little more today. May I listen to your words attentively so that I can respond with deliberate obedience. Lord, I trust that you will give me what I need to fulfill your holy will.
Encountering Christ:
1. “The Children of This World Are More Prudent”: We note a tinge of sadness in Our Lord’s comment, “For the children of this world are more prudent in dealing with their own generation than the children of light.’’ In other words, people strive more intensely for the things of this world than his followers do in pursuit of the kingdom of God. The children of the world engage their intellect, will, and imagination to gain wealth, popularity, power, and comfort. They know what they want and they pursue it. While the object they pursue is ephemeral, the intensity with which they pursue it is admirable. Our Lord wants to see his followers live with that same intensity. In the Book of Revelation he says, “I wish you were either cold or hot. So, because you are lukewarm, neither hot nor cold, I will spit you out of my mouth” (Revelation 3:15-16). 
2. Want the Kingdom of God: As Christians we believe in the primacy of grace; therefore, we must principally rely on prayer and the sacraments to help establish God’s kingdom in our hearts and in the world. However, it is a frequent temptation to equate confidence in grace with indolence. St. James writes, “What good is it, my brothers, if someone says he has faith but does not have works?... Demonstrate your faith to me without works, and I will demonstrate my faith to you from my works” (James 2:14,18). Activism is relying too much on our work without grace. Our faith should spur us to action. To be obedient to God is to do what he asks, to take action. This does not preclude that at times we must wait; however, eventually we must act. Docility to God’s will and passivity are not the same thing; a race horse can be docile to the jockey running at full speed.
3. Creativity Born of Desire: The church and the world need Christians proactively seeking to serve where need is greatest. The saints have been eloquent models of such initiative. St. John Bosco saw the displaced boys in the streets due to the industrial revolution, so he started an orphanage and trade schools. Dr. Moscati served his community as a medical doctor and researcher. St. Katharine Drexel saw the struggles of African-Americans and Native Americans, so she founded schools for them. St. Teresa of Calcutta saw the homeless dying unloved in the streets, so she created homes for the dying. The Holy Spirit speaks to us through prayer and Scripture, but also through our talents and the needs around us. We must prayerfully discern to see where and how God is asking us to serve.
 
Friday 31st Sunday in Ordinary Time (Rom. 15:14-21;  Lk. 16:1-8)
We do not know how the administrator in the gospel parable was failing to perform his duty for his master. Perhaps he had gotten lazy or had gotten complacent and had stopped giving his best effort and so was merely negligent or perhaps was actually incompetent. Whatever he had done or had failed to do, it cost him his job. He does not seem surprised that his poor performance has merited his termination. The really sad part is that it is his notice of termination that prompts him to be creative, to be astute and to finally get to work. If he had been this creative and diligent all along, he probably would not have lost his job!
            The scriptures call us to not get lazy or complacent or to rest on our past achievements. All of us have a task to do, a part to contribute towards the coming of God’s reign and this work is ongoing throughout the whole of our lives. We cannot ever think we’ve completed our part and deserve to rest in the sweet praises of what we once had accomplished no more than we can delay until the approaching termination of our days on earth to spark us into action. We are called to make good use of the things of this world without becoming tainted by having used them, always remembering that things are not what are most important and they are always ultimately left behind. Lord, with Your grace and wisdom may we make good use of the blessings we receive in this life to benefit ourselves and our brothers and sisters.

Suy Niệm Tin Mừng Thừ Năm Tuần 31 Thường Niên

Suy Niệm
Tin Mừng Thừ Năm Tuần 31 Thường Niên. Luke 15:1-10.  
Trong bài Tin Mừng hôm nay, Thánh Luca mô tả Thiên Chúa không phải là người ưa thích báo thù hay muốn trừng phạt con người, nhưng là một Thiên Chúa đầu yêu thương, Ngài hằng mong tìm kiếm những con người tội lỗi để đem họ về trong ơn cứu rỗi. Thiên Chúa đang tìm kiếm chúng ta, những con người tội lỗi, và yếu kém đức tin! Trong bài dụ ngôn hôm nay, Chúa Giêsu đuợc mô tả như một người mục tử nhân từ đang tìm kiếm con chiên đi lạc trong sa mạc. Và khi tìm thấy được nó, anh ta không tức giận, la mắng hay trừng phạt nó vì cái tội đi lang thang để bị lạc bày, nhưng anh ta đã đặt nó trên vai và mang nó về nhà với niềm vui hớn hở. Tương tự như vậy, Thánh Luca tiếp tục miêu tả Thiên Chúa như người phụ nữ tìm đồng tiền bị mất của mình. Cô quét nhà, thắp đèn cho sáng, cô đã bỏ ra hằng giờ và cố công để tìm cho ra đồng bạc bị mất của mình. Mặc dù đồng bạc ấy có giá trị không bằng cái công đã bỏ ra đi tìm, và có thể cô còn tốn tiền nhiều hơn cái giá trị của đồng tiền trong việc ăn mừng với bạn bè làng xóm sau khi cô đã tìm thấy được đồng bạc ấy.
            Kitô giáo của chúng ta chú trọng về việc Thiên Chúa tìm kiếm chúng ta, con người tội lỗi  hơn là việc chúng ta đi tìm kiếm Thiên Chúa: việc Thiên Chúa tha thứ, đón nhận, và mời gọi chúng ta đến với Bí Tích Thánh Thể. Kinh Thánh mời gọi chúng ta suy ngẫm về những gì chúng ta có thể đã vô tình đánh mất. Có lẽ chúng ta đã đánh mất một cái gì đó đọc đường trong cuộc sống vất vả, cam go,  hay chúng ta bị thất lạc những gí đó trong một cuốc sống đầy bon chen vật chất, hoặc chúng ta đã vô tình hay cố ý bỏ lại sau lưng những gì đó vì cuộc sống đầy vội vã, và đua chạy với đồng tiền, danh vọng.. Chúng ta đã mất những gì? Chúng ta cỏn thiếu những gì cho cuộc sống của chúng ta? Thiên Chúa đang tìm kiếm chúng ta, đang chờ đợi chúng ta và sẵn sàng chào đón và đưa chúng ta về nhà Chúa. Hãy đến với với tâm hồn thống hối và ăn năn.  Lạy Chúa, linh hồn chúng con đang mong chờ và đợi Chúa, xin cho chúng con biết vtin tưởng vào lời Chúa đã hứa.
 
Thursday 31st Ordinary Time Rom. 14:7-12; Lk. 15:1-10
Contrary to some fire and brimstone preaching, our God does not delight in sending people to Hell. In fact, God grieves when people turn away from him. Our God does not cast us out. God leaves the door unlocked and we can freely choose to stay or go or even come home as we please.
            The gospel today portrays God, not as vengeful and punishing, but as a God who searches for sinners so he can save them. God is searching for us! In the first parable Jesus describes a shepherd searching for a lost sheep in the desert. When he finds it, he does not scold or punish it for wandering off and becoming lost, but puts it on his shoulders and brings it home with great joy.
            Likewise, Luke portrays God as a woman searching for her lost coin. She sweeps the house, lights a lamp. She spends more time and energy searching for her coin than it is probably worth and probably spends more than its value in celebrating its finding with her friends.
            Christianity is more about God seeking us than it is about us seeking God: about God forgiving, welcoming, and inviting us to the Eucharist, sinners though we all are. The scriptures invite us to reflect upon what we may have unknowingly lost. What is missing? Perhaps something we dropped or have misplaced or accidentally left behind or maybe just gradually fell away unnoticed. Perhaps something was taken from us. What have we lost? What’s missing? God is looking for us, waiting to welcome us home.  My soul is waiting for the Lord, I count on his word.
 
Thursday of the Thirty-first Week in Ordinary Time 2026
“What man among you having a hundred sheep and losing one of them would not leave the ninety-nine in the desert and go after the lost one until he finds it? And when he does find it, he sets it on his shoulders with great joy and, upon his arrival home, he calls together his friends and neighbors and says to them, ‘Rejoice with me because I have found my lost sheep.’ I tell you, in just the same way  there will be more joy in heaven over one sinner who repents than over ninety-nine righteous people who have no need of repentance.” Luke 15:4–7
Repentance is often perceived as harsh, humiliating, and difficult. It requires us to admit our guilt, take ownership of our sins, resolve to change, and seek to repair the harm we’ve caused. It can feel easier to remain obstinate and avoid the discomfort of contrition. But that perspective distorts the truth. Self-justification is not rooted in God nor in truth; it is a selfish defense of our pride, not a pathway to healing.
The chief obstacle to repentance is pride. It is difficult to acknowledge our sins honestly, let alone confess them and seek reparation. Pride stirs our defenses and tempts us to resist humbling ourselves before God, others, and truth itself. This struggle is often magnified in close relationships, especially when both parties wrestle with pride and self-righteousness. In such cases, even a sincere apology may be met with resistance, and only time and grace can bring reconciliation.
But if the one we offended were perfect—like our Lord—repentance would be easier. We would know we are met with mercy, not condemnation. Reparation becomes more bearable when received by a heart full of compassion that is eager to reconcile. The good news is that every sin, though it may harm others, is first and foremost a debt we owe to God. Repentance, then, is an act offered to Him above all. And from God’s perspective, our repentance is never met with bitterness but with rejoicing.
Today’s Gospel reveals this divine joy through two parables. A shepherd searches for one lost sheep, and a woman searches for a lost coin. In both, the search is diligent, personal, and ends in joy. The shepherd and the woman represent God, who relentlessly seeks us, not to scold, but to rescue and carry us home. Both, upon finding what was lost, gather their friends and rejoice. These “friends” are the angels and saints, as well as the faithful on earth who share in God’s joy. We all sin. But how do we view repentance? As a burden or a joy? This Gospel invites us to shed the worldly view of repentance and adopt God’s view: one of rejoicing, restoration, and love.
What is your attitude toward sin? Do you cling to guilt and shame, deny your faults, or justify them? Or do you see sin as God sees it: as a wound He longs to heal? Repentance, rightly understood, floods God’s heart with joy. Though we can add nothing to His glory, we can offer Him joy each time we repent in humility. This truth means that repentance is not only desirable, but freeing and life-giving.
Likewise, when others sin against us—especially those closest to us—true freedom comes not through condemnation but through a heart like God’s: one that seeks to restore, not accuse. Our judgment carries no weight before God; it only distances us from the joy He desires for us and others.
Reflect today on whether your view of repentance reflects God’s. Consider both your sins and the sins of others. Ask for the grace to see repentance as a cause of joy, not only in Heaven but also in your own heart.
My forgiving Lord, I sin each day and wound Your Sacred Heart. Yet I know that Your mercy is greater than my weakness. Help me to recognize that the remedy for my sin is sincere repentance and ongoing conversion. Deepen my understanding of the joy that fills Your Heart when I return to You, so that I may never hesitate to repent. As You joyfully receive and forgive me, grant me the grace to extend that same mercy to others. Help me to seek out the lost with love and perseverance, just as You have sought me. Jesus, I trust in You.
 
Thursday of the Thirty-First Week in Ordinary Time 2026
Opening Prayer: Heavenly Father, you know me completely and love me even when I wander from you. Search my heart and reveal the ways in which I have become lost, whether through sinful desires or spiritual pride. Give me the humility to repent, the grace to return to you, and the charity to welcome others who seek your mercy. May I rejoice whenever a sinner is found and restored to your family.
Encountering the Word of God
1. The Parable of the Lost Sheep: In Luke’s Gospel, Jesus prepares for the Parable of the Prodigal Son and his Older Brother (Luke 15:11-32) by telling two shorter parables: the Lost Sheep and the Lost Coin. He tells these stories in response to the Pharisees and scribes, who complain that he welcomes sinners and eats with them. Jesus reveals that his willingness to receive sinners is not a compromise with sin but an expression of God’s saving love. In the first parable, a shepherd leaves ninety-nine sheep in the wilderness to search for one that has wandered away. From a merely economic perspective, this seems unreasonable. Why risk the safety of the many for the sake of one? Yet the shepherd's actions reveal a love that cannot treat the loss of even one sheep as insignificant. He searches until he finds it, then joyfully carries it home on his shoulders. This is how God seeks us. He does not consider us interchangeable members of a crowd, nor does he measure our worth by our usefulness to him. Each of us is precious to him. When we wander through sin, he does not simply write us off or wait indifferently for us to return. Through his grace, he calls us back to himself. Notice, too, that the shepherd rejoices when he finds the sheep. He does not beat it for wandering away or make it walk home to prove its worthiness. He carries it home with joy. God’s mercy does not mean that sin is harmless; it means that our sins need not have the final word. The Good Shepherd desires not merely to expose our lostness but to restore us to communion with him and his flock.
2. The Parable of the Lost Coin: The second parable presents a different kind of lostness. A woman has ten coins, loses one, lights a lamp, sweeps the house, and searches carefully until she finds it. Unlike the sheep, the coin has not wandered away. It remains somewhere inside the house, yet it is still lost. This image invites us to consider those who remain within the Church but have become spiritually lost. The Pharisees and scribes are physically close to God’s people and familiar with his commandments, yet their hearts resist the mercy Jesus extends to sinners. They can recognize the sins of others while remaining blind to their own need for conversion. We know people who have left the Church because of sinful habits, disillusionment, or the pursuit of worldly pleasures. We may also know people who continue to practice their faith but have become trapped in pride, resentment, judgment, or self-righteousness. It is possible to remain close to the things of God while growing distant from the heart of God. Religious observance is a genuine good, but it cannot substitute for love. We can attend Mass, observe moral rules, and perform works of devotion while treating others harshly or refusing to rejoice when someone receives mercy. We can even approach our relationship with God as though it were a ledger, believing that our good deeds entitle us to his favor. Yet salvation is a gift of grace, not a wage we earn through our religious accomplishments. Jesus does not abandon those who are lost inside the house. Just as the woman searches diligently for her coin, he seeks those whose outward fidelity conceals an inward resistance to grace. At the end of the Parable of the Prodigal Son, the father goes out to plead with his older son, inviting him to celebrate his brother's return. The father wants both sons at the feast. Likewise, Christ calls both the openly sinful and the outwardly righteous to conversion: one must turn away from sinful actions, and the other must turn away from the pride that prevents him from loving as God loves.
3. The Joy of Being Found and of Finding Others: Both parables end with a celebration. The shepherd calls his friends and neighbors to rejoice with him, and the woman does the same when she finds her lost coin. Jesus then reveals the heavenly significance of their joy: there is rejoicing before the angels of God over one sinner who repents. This is a striking challenge to the Pharisees and scribes. They see sinners approaching Jesus and respond with complaints. Heaven sees the same sinners approaching the Lord and responds with joy. Their criticism exposes how far their hearts have drifted from God’s desires. They are so concerned with maintaining distinctions between the righteous and the sinful that they cannot celebrate when a sinner begins the journey home. We, too, must learn to see others through the eyes of heaven. When someone repents, returns to the sacraments, abandons a destructive habit, or begins to rebuild a broken relationship with God, our response should be gratitude rather than suspicion. We should not demand that a returning sinner first demonstrate perfection before offering encouragement and welcome. Genuine repentance bears fruit over time, but the first steps toward conversion are already reasons for hope and rejoicing. The parables also challenge us to participate in Christ’s search for the lost. We cannot force another person to repent, but we can pray for those who have wandered away, patiently accompany them, and make the Church a place where they can encounter the mercy of God. We must also examine our own hearts, asking whether our words and attitudes make it easier or harder for others to return. Ultimately, we are all dependent on God’s mercy. Some of us have wandered far from the flock; others have remained in the house while allowing pride to harden our hearts. Wherever we are lost, Christ seeks us. And when his grace brings us home, he invites us to share heaven’s joy by welcoming others into the same mercy we have received.
 
Thursday 31st Ordinary Time 2025
Opening Prayer: Lord God, I pray that you may find me when I am lost. For my part, I will seek you in all good things. I am thankful for the gift of your grace that empowers me to do good works.
Encountering the Word of God
1. The Parable of the Lost Sheep: In the Gospel of Luke, Jesus prepares for the Parable of the Prodigal Son and his Older Brother (Luke 15:11-32) by telling two parables. The Parable of the Lost Sheep (Luke 15:3-7) focuses on God’s concern for sinners who are like the younger, prodigal son. The twist in the parable is that the shepherd leaves the ninety-nine. Any sensible shepherd would just cut their losses. They still have 99 sheep, losing one is no big deal. God, however, is not a sensible shepherd. He is madly in love with each one of us. He knows each one of us by name. We are each precious to God, and he will do whatever it takes to bring us back into the flock of his sheep.
2. The Parable of the Lost Coin: The second parable, the Parable of the Lost Coin (Luke 15:8- 10), applies especially to those who are like the Pharisees and scribes. They haven’t wandered far like the lost sheep. They are in the house of God, but they are lost too! Just as Jesus seeks out the lost sheep, he will seek out the lost coin. We are familiar with both groups of people. We know family members, friends, coworkers, and others who have fallen into “sins of the flesh” and have left the Church. We also know people who remain in the Church but are like the scribes and Pharisees. They refuse to welcome sinners, they judge them no matter what they do, and they relate to God more like an accountant than a Father. Instead of growing in love for God and their brothers and sisters, they check off boxes of external pious practices and are confidently self-righteous because of all the sins they are avoiding. They refuse to celebrate God’s mercy. They are lost in the House of God and need to be found. Jesus asks us to imitate the merciful father, who goes to the older son and asks him to celebrate the return of his brother and welcome him into the family once more. He asks us to imitate the woman who searches her house for the lost coin and calls all her friends and neighbors to rejoice with her when she finds it.
3. Why Do You Judge? In the Letter to the Romans 14-15, Paul is trying to foster unity in the Roman church without imposing uniformity in nonessential matters. He identifies two factions in the community, and labels one “the weak and the other “the strong.” The weak are persons who abstain from meat and wine and follow a calendar that regards some days as more important than others. The strong, by contrast, are persons who embrace an unrestricted diet and make no distinction between one day and another. “Basically, the weak are committed to following a traditional Jewish way of life, while the strong believe that Judaism’s ritual observances are nonissues for Christians” (Hahn and Mitch, Romans, 241). Theologically, Paul teaches that the strong are right to hold that no food is unclean in itself. By pastorally, Paul asks that the strong not overassert their Christian freedoms to the detriment of the weak in the community. Both the strong and the weak shouldn’t be critical of one another, but practice respect and acceptance. This is the context for Paul asking them: “Why then do you judge your brother? Or you, why do you look down on your brother?” (Romans 14:10). We always need to keep in mind that we will be judged by God.